06 September 2008

...Sex, lies, and pregnancy...

Will someone please explain to my husband that due to hormones during pregnancy, my sex drive is simply put...non existent. Ugh. I swear, we go through the "Do you just not find me attractive anymore" discussion at least once a day. haha I feel bad for him, I really do. I cant help it though! Mixing breastfeeding and pregnancy is definitely taking a toll on my hormones. I'm honestly repulsed by the thought of any sort of sexual intercourse. *YaY* for the newlywed stage =X

Some women get lucky and are extremely 'rowdy' during pregnancy. For some reason, my husband believes this to be all pregnant women. Even when I was preggo with Kadence, he thought my minimal (not nearly as bad as it is now) sex drive was just bizzare! I'm pretty sure he thought I was faking it. haha I must admit, I did come up with a few 'I have a headache tonight' fibs, just cause I wanted to be lazy, but most of the time I really just wasnt interested in the whole getting 'down and dirty' concept.

I'm one of those "sex is what got me here in the first place" kinda ladies, I guess. Who knows why I get this way. He wanted me pregnant though! I have to keep reminding him of that =) It sorta helps me not feel so bad. hehe

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Tell him Aaron went about 4 months without sex because I not only don't feel like it, but it hurt. He's only been getting it lately because I want to try everything to have this kid naturally with no inducing drugs!

MomPlicated said...

Aha! I knew there were other women out there like me! haha One of my best friends was extremely 'rowdy' during her pregnancy, so she didnt make me look good at all =X hehe